Sunday, January 04, 2026

Random flashback, January 1981 // Escena retrospectiva, enero 1981


Sometimes I randomly (literally, because I use a random number generator) pick a photo from my past and write about it. There were an awful lot of years in my life when I didn´t have a blog, and I figure this is a way to preserve a few of my memories. Fate chose this photo for me, from 1981. I can´t deduce what it commemorates, but I can still remember a lot from that period.

In this photo, I´m six years old, and my equally blond brother is the cute four-year-old. My mother is sporting a styling 1980´s perm, something that I also did for a while in my middle school. I assume my father took the picture, and we are posed in the kitchen of our two-story suburban home in Kankakee, Illinois. You can admire the orange/goldenrod dark brown decorating scheme the house came with. Two years later, a housefire meant my parents got to redecorate completely in more tasteful creams and beiges.

As a first-grader, this would have been my first year in the public Montissouri school I attended. I don´t think this method is used in public schools very often, but I credit it with developing my lifelong love of learning. The gift of having a lot of autonomy to choose what you study, and then suitable levels of reading and math group that challenged me, made school a place I liked, in spite of my extreme shyness.

We lived in the house for six years, starting when I was four years old. I have pretty happy memories of a family where I was loved and a neighborhood where I could run around with my friends without supervision. I learned to ride a bike, I played piano, I started cooking, and began to be the person I am today.

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A veces, elijo una foto al azar de mi pasado y escribo sobre ello. Durante muchos años de mi vida no escribía en mi blog, y este es un método para preservar algunos recuerdos de esa época. El azar eligió esta foto de 1981 para mí. No puedo deducir por qué lo hicimos, pero todavía recuerdo mucho de ese período.

En esta foto, tengo seis años y mi hermano tiene cuatro. Ambos somos rubios y preciosos. Mi madre llevaba una permanente que estaba muy de moda en los años 80s, y yo también hice lo mismo cuando era preadolescente. Supongo que mi padre tomó la foto, y estamos en la cocina de nuestro chalet suburbano en Kankakee, Illinois. Obsérve se los colores naranja, dorado y marrón. Dos años después, un incendio en la casa hizo que mis padres pudieran renovar con una paleta de colores más linda, en tonos crema y beige.

Como estaba en mi primer año de primaria, eseo fue mi primer año en una escuela pública de Montessori. No creo que este método se usara con frecuencia en escuelas públicas en EE. UU., pero le doy crédito por mi amor por el aprendizaje a lo largo de mi vida. Fue un regalo tener la autonomía de elegir el tema que iba a estudiar cada día, y también había grupos de lectura y matemáticas aptos para cada nivel. Por eso, me gustaba la escuela, aunque era extremadamente tímida.

Vivía en este chalet durante seís años. Tengo recuerdos felices de una familia que me quería y un barrio donde podía correr libremente con amigos. Aprendí a montar en bici, tocaba el piano, empecé a cocinar y comencé a ser la persona que soy hoy.

4 comments:

Anonymous said...

You’re right ,what a great memory that photo inspired. I can’t imagine you with a perm,but I had one too back then and also in the 60’s.

de-I said...

Hmmm 1981, I don't remember a lot about our family life, but the country was in a major recession, the worst since the depression, I had been fired from my job, and was scrapping to build a life as self-employed and thus launched the rest of my work life trajectory.

Renee Michelle Goertzen said...

Uncle de-I, that sounds like a difficult time. Your work trajectory certainly led you somewhere different!

Anonymous said...

Aww, good times! Remember the trips we would all take together to see the decorations in Chicago and playing Long Winter during the hottest part of summer.